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Review: How the Light Gets In

How The Light Gets In

How the Light Gets In
By Joyce Maynard
William Morrow, 9780062398307. June 2025, 432 pp.

The Short of It:

Wow, wow, wow.

The Rest of It:

Following the death of her former husband, Cam, fifty-four-year-old Eleanor has moved back to the New Hampshire farm where they raised three children to care for their brain-injured son, Toby, now an adult. Toby’s older brother, Al, is married and living in Seattle with his wife; their sister, Ursula, lives in Vermont with her husband and two children. Although all appears stable, old resentments, anger, and bitterness simmer just beneath the surface. ~ Indiebound

How the Light Gets In is the follow-up to Maynard’s much loved Count the Ways. The family has grown, there are new losses to navigate. Eleanor is still Eleanor but still struggling with motherhood and marriage and what tragedy can do to a family.

In this story, it’s presented early on that Eleanor’s son Toby suffers a brain injury. Although Toby suffers in some ways, he thrives in others. He’s the most caring, loving individual and quite the qualified goat farmer. Eleanor is of course, very protective of him and that drives how she interacts with nearly everyone he meets.

This is a layered, family drama that spans the pandemic years and those very difficult election years so it is heavy in places. Maynard touches on sexual identity, infidelity, drug and alcohol use, the prevalence of school shootings, and political unrest. I feel that Maynard did her best to pack everything into this book, and by the time you turn that last page you will have been through it. It’s heavy and weighty.

There are some beautiful, quiet moments though. I think that is what most of us come to expect from Maynard and she does not disappoint.

Source: Borrowed
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Sunday Matters: Getting Things Done

Sunday Matters

Good morning!! How is everyone? Here in Southern California we are in a heat wave. We had a mild June and now, temps of 112-115. When you step outside it’s like an oven. I know some of you ADORE the heat. Me? Not so much. Plus, there’s been a fire every day! All that rain led to growth and now it’s all brown. Fire season is upon us.

My daughter arrives for a week later this month. There are some things around the house that I need to tackle before she arrives. They don’t really have anything to do with her arrival, but it motivates me. I need to work on my closet and the garage. The garage is bad. It has a lot of discards from both kids moving out.

Right Now:

Student ministry this morning, like always. It’s been a fun summer of activities and games. Some good messages too.

This Week:

At the end of the week I have a dental appointment. The brain tumor I had was so large that it pushed my palate out so my teeth don’t align all that well. I suspect my dentist will mention it.

Nothing else planned, which is nice. I do like our little road trips here and there but in 110 degree heat they aren’t so fun.

Reading:

I blew through a number of books recently and posted reviews for:

Extinction
The Summer Club
House of Cotton

I am finishing up You Like It Darker by King. And I am almost done with The Return of Ellie Black.

I just requested a review copy of Murakami’s new one, The City and Its Uncertain Walls. I sure hope I am approved! You all know how much I love him!

The City and Its Uncertain Walls

If that doesn’t happen, I plan to pick up The Search Party to read next.

Watching:

It’s been a long time since the Hub and I have watched anything but friends recommended Alice in Borderland and so we’ve been watching an episode each night. It’s good. Along the lines of Squid Game, but Japanese. We’ve been enjoying it!

alice in borderland

Grateful for:

Biscuits. This might sound like a silly thing to be grateful for but it was the ONLY thing I could eat after surgery because everything made me sick! And now? I love them so much and this song just HITS. Yes, a biscuit song.