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Review: The Ten Year Affair

The Ten Year Affair

The Ten Year Affair
By Erin Somers
Simon & Schuster, October 2025, 304pp.

The Short of It:

Compelling and thoughtful.

The Rest of It:

When Cora meets Sam at a baby group in their small town, the chemistry between them is undeniable. Both are happily married young parents with two kids, and neither sees themselves as the type to engage in an affair. Yet their connection grows stronger, and as their lives continue to intertwine, the romantic tension between them becomes all-consuming—until their worlds unravel into two parallel timelines. In one, they pursue their feelings. In the other, they resist. ~ from the publisher

I saw The Ten Year Affair on the Tournament of Books 2026 shortlist and was immediately intrigued. Luckily, I found it quickly on Libby and blew through it. It’s an amazing read in that you absolutely feel the conflict between these characters as well as the temptation. Oh boy, the temptation.

Cora is happily married to her husband. But is she really happy? Things have gotten rather safe. Her husband spends a lot of time smoking weed on the balcony while the kids sleep. The weed, well, it affects things in the bedroom. He’s struggling at work and she’s just miserable doing the same thing over and over both at work and at home.

Sam, is the dad of dads. His wife is an overachiever and very successful. He holds down the fort but is this his life now? Going to daddy and me classes and running the kids back and forth?

Sam and Cora end up at one of those baby and me classes and there is an instant attraction. Sam listens to Cora in the way that her husband does not. The two forge an immediate bond. Friendly, sweet. They decide to bring their significant others into the mix, signifying a platonic friendship, just looking for a little parental support.

That’s how it starts out.

Then, Cora begins to imagine an alternate reality. In that timeline, she and Sam are seeing each other. In the real world she refrains, they both do, but in that other timeline, things get serious pretty fast. The story bounces back and forth between the imagined timeline and what is actually happening until the two blur together and then there is only one timeline.

This is an intense read. Sam and Cora’s “relationship” spans ten years. Ten years of wishing, and hoping and then pulling the trigger. How does such a relationship affect these two families. How is it right, when two marriages are at stake? But it FEELS right. That’s the conflict. Erin Somers writes a story that has you going one way and then the other. Cora isn’t in the wrong. She’s not getting the attention she needs. And then, how could Cora do that? How could they start something while still fully involved with their spouses?

I would hazard to guess that anyone who has been married for say 15+ years or more, has experienced some of these feelings. Somers has created real, flawed, characters but ones that you root for even though what you are rooting for is potentially a marriage break-up. That’s conflict to the highest degree. If I had to assign a song to this book, it would be Depeche’s A Question of Lust.

Highly recommend. I went digging around to see what else she’s written and I see one other book, Stay Up with Hugo Best and I will for sure find a copy.

Source: Borrowed
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Books Reviewed in 2025

This is a list of the books I read and reviewed in 2025. Each link takes you directly to my review of that book. Happy New Year!

2025 Reviews

  1. Bright Young Women by Jessica Knoll
  2. Lucy by the Sea by Elizabeth Strout
  3. The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky
  4. Trust by Hernan Diaz
  5. Animal Farm by George Orwell
  6. Three Days in June by Anne Tyler
  7. Butter by Asako Yuzuki
  8. Evenings & Weekends by Oisin McKenna
  9. Night Watch by Jayne Anne Phillips
  10. Gliff by Ali Smith
  11. Red Dog Farm by Nathanial Ian Miller
  12. Pinch Me by Barbara Boyle
  13. The Imagined Life by Andrew Porter
  14. Julie Chan is Dead by Liann Zhang
  15. Never Flinch by Stephen King
  16. The Poppy Fields by Nikki Erlick
  17. Red Pill by Hari Kunzru
  18. The Homemade God by Rachel Joyce
  19. All the Words We Know by Bruce Nash
  20. The Sandy Page Bookshop by Hannah McKinnon
  21. Finding Grace by Loretta Rothschild
  22. The Wasp Trap by Mark Edwards
  23. Havoc by Christopher Bollen
  24. Heart the Lover by Lily King
  25. Cat’s Eye by Margaret Atwood
  26. Oryx and Crake by Margaret Atwood
  27. The Waters by Bonnie Jo Campbell
  28. The End of the World as We Know It by Christopher Golden
  29. The Year of the Flood by Margaret Atwood
  30. MaddAddam by Margaret Atwood
  31. With Friends Like These by Alissa Lee
  32. Friends and Liars by Kit Frick
  33. The Mad Wife by Meagan Church
  34. Wreck by Catherine Newman
  35. My Friends by Fredrik Backman
  36. Writers & Lovers by Lily King
  37. Beautiful Ugly by Alice Feeney