All the Words We Know
By Bruce Nash
Atria, July 1, 2025, 240pp
The Short of It:
Dark with humor.
The Rest of It:
Rose may be in her eighties and suffering from dementia, but she’s not done with life just yet. Alternately sharp as a tack and spectacularly forgetful, she spends her days roaming the corridors of her assisted living facility, musing on the staff and residents, and enduring visits form her emotionally distant children and granddaughters. But when her friend is found dead after an apparent fall from a window, Rose embarks on an eccentric and determined investigation to discover the truth and uncover all manner of secrets…even some from her own past. ~ publisher
All the Words We Know surprised me. Rose is this sweet, charming lady whose grasp of the English language is slipping ever so slightly. Words like “elevator” become “relevator” and her interactions with the other residents are one-sided at best, and sometimes not even with the living!
But, she’s sharp. Very sharp, so when strange things begin to happen at the assisted living facility, she finds herself conducting her own investigation into what is going on. She befriends a trans employee who provides warnings, but are they REAL warnings or Rose’s imagination at work again?
I was intrigued by this story. Rose’s observations are colored by dementia but as the story comes together, I couldn’t help myself. I wanted to know what the heck was going on and what was up with hat facility?
All of the players, the “angry” nurse, the “scare/care” manager, the nice boy with a mop, provide ways for the story to move forward without giving the entire plot away. Overall, I liked the story. Mostly I appreciated how unique it was. Getting used to Rose’s way of speaking took a bit of time but once I got used to it, the story flowed effortlessly.
Source: Review copy sent to me by the publisher.
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My parents just moved into independent living at a retirement community. It’s a good move as my dad’s short term memory is slipping. This one sounds really good and as if it would relatable for me right now.
Definitely. The way the author used language to let the reader know that the protag was slowly worsening. I found it to be refreshingly different.
I’m going to look for this book, thanks for blogging about it.
How’s the otter Pup doing?
I posted about the Otter Pup in another reply to you but she is doing ok. Not great but she is surprisingly tolerating my daughter’s cat. So that’s good.
The other day she sat by the front door and so I put her leash on and took her outside. She just sat outside for a bit (meep) but it was sweet. I could see that she enjoyed being out even though it was only for a few minutes. I am going to try to take her out on the patio when I am working from home. She misses all the smells.
This is one I’d like to try. It sounds a bit like We Spread by Iain Reid (reviewed on my blog)
I really liked it plus it was refreshingly different.
I love the concept of this one.
It was refreshingly different.
I was rooting all the way for Rose. Dementia patients need not be totally out of it!
Harvee https://harvee44.blogspot.com/
Right? I loved Rose.
This sounds very interesting and probably has a lot of nuance.