You Asked, I Answered – Part 3

This is the continuation of the Q&A with me. If you’d like to check out parts 1 and 2, you can do so here and here.

Melissa asks:

I completely agree that the person behind the blog is what really makes it click (or not click) with each reader. I’m curious, because of your “strange unbringing” do you feel drawn to books that deal with similar situations or do you try to avoid them?

I don’t think I am drawn to them, but I can certainly relate to them and when other bloggers can’t read a book because it’s just too depressing, I tend to not have any problems with it. What I do end up having problems with is if the story is not believable or the characters are not written in a realistic way. I tend to feel very strongly about this when it comes to books about dysfunctional families because I know what it was like to be in a family like that and the unrealistic parts stick out for me, whereas they may not for another reader.

Lisa asks:

So I know you like musicals. What’s your favorite?

I do love musicals!! The Boy did several musicals and each time he did them, I’d buy the soundtrack and sing those songs for months. I loved Wicked when it came to town but my fave would be Annie. I just love that spunky kid and her dog. The Sound of Music is right up there too.

Softdrink asks:

Have you ever travelled outside of CA, and if so, where?

Some cities I’ve visited: Chicago, New York, Salt Lake, Las Vegas, Denver, Boulder parts of Oregon including (Lake Oswego, Portland, Astoria, Beaverton, Forest Grove, Hillsboro, Tillamook, Tualatin), Washington, DC, Seattle, Bellevue, Mercer Island,  and Orlando.

Staci asks:

Do you secretly read books that you are too embarrassed to post about?

Every now and then I read popular fiction and I tend to not want to post reviews of those books. However, sometimes I have and then I always wonder why I even bothered so I created a separate tab at the top of my blog just to list the books I’ve read. That way I can still keep track of them but not feel obligated to review them.

Erica asks:

I love knowing the answer to this question about people–how did you meet your husband?

I already answered the question in this post, but the corny line he used on me was, “It’s raining out, wouldn’t it be nice to start a fire and watch a movie?” The thing was, I was at work so no, I wouldn’t be starting a fire unless it was in the fireproof vault and no, I won’t be watching a movie unless you get your jollies from watching surveillance tapes (worked in a bank). To this day, we still laugh over it.

Bonnie asks:

Do you have family and friends reading your blog and does that affect what you blog about?

I have family members who know about my blog, but I don’t think they read it. They might since the posts are published on Facebook too but they’ve never commented or said anything to me about it. I know that some “in real life” friends do read it, because they’ve posted comments before. Does it change how I post? Not really, but there was one time I said something about work and didn’t know that a colleague was a subscriber. Hello! Awkward!

Lakeshia asks:

I’m an avid reader myself and for awhile I’ve been interested in starting a book blog. How did you go about it and also how do you promote it so that people will come to your site?

I started my blog without doing any research first. I created it through Blogger for free and then fought with it for a year trying to get it to do what I wanted it to do. If you want to make it easier for yourself, I’d suggest looking at other blogs, deciding what you want it to do and how you want it to look and then seek out a publishing platform that offers similar features. In the end, I purchased my own domain and went with WordPress but you don’t have to purchase your own domain to have a good-looking, functional blog.

For months, I talked to myself. No traffic. The traffic came when I started to visit and comment on other blogs. Often, they would pay me a return visit and put me in their blog rolls. I did the same for them. It was slow going. It really picked up when I created a Facebook page and a Twitter account. I post all of my reviews on Library Thing, Goodreads, FB, Twitter and Barnes and Noble and lately I have been playing with StumbleUpon. I also host giveaways every now and then. People love to win things!

Content can drive traffic too. Having a regular posting schedule helps. For me though, I think a lot of the traffic I get comes from repeat visitors. I really like to know who I am interacting with so I will often respond to comments individually. I think readers like to know that their comments are being read, so they come back.

There’s so much more I could say but for me, this pretty much sums it up.

That’s it! I don’t think I forgot anyone, but if I did, let me know.

Thinking and Doing

Okay, so the other day I decided to change my header a bit (see it up there?). I didn’t want to change it too much, but I wanted it to be a little brighter and I wanted an image with a second Adirondack chair.

Why? Well, I am supposed to be “chatting with friends about books and life” and it occurred to me that the one chair screamed LONER.  Also, it had been a particularly stressful week when I put the header up, so you might notice the “empty” wine glass.  That drink was drunk!

This was the old one:

Old Book Chatter Header

I still like the old one, but I like the new one better. At least for now.  I had been wanting to change it for a long time so it feels good to check it off the list.

The other thing that I’ve been thinking about is that I haven’t been terribly wowed by my reading this year. I am not referring to quantity. Instead, I am referring to the caliber of literature that I’ve picked for myself. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve enjoyed several of the books I’ve read so far and I’ve recommend many to others but besides Safe from the Sea, I haven’t read any that have stopped me cold. You know the ones I mean. I am talking about the books that make you stop and think about life, love, the world, eternity, etc.

I need more of them.

I don’t want to come up with a formal plan to make this work because as soon as it’s a formal thing,  my interest wanes. So, I am going to be inserting meatier, more substantial reads in between what I’ve already promised to review. It’s what I had planned to do all this year, but somehow loss my mojo. This may mean more classics and definitely some older titles. Don’t you get tired of seeing the same reviews over and over again anyway? I know I do.

If you’ve been thinking about changes, whether it’s a related to blog design or your reading in general, what have you been thinking about doing?