It’s Friday and the end of Week 3! Of Human Bondage has surprised me in many ways.
By now, you should have read the following but many of you have expressed some challenges in keeping up with the reading. No worries! I set a schedule because some readers like that, but you read what you can and I won’t spoil the story for you.
This week we are discussing this section:
Chapters XL-LI / 40-51 (82 pp.)
Chapters LII-LIII / 52-53 (13 pp.)
Chapters LIV-LV / 54-55 (12 pp.)
Chapters LVI-LXII / 56-62 (38 pp.)
Chapters LXIII-LXVIII / 63-68 (29 pp.)
Discuss/Read the above by 10/18 (174 pages total)
Click here for the full schedule.
Week 3 – Where Do I Start?
I won’t provide a complete re-cap because it would give some things away but goodness!! So much has happened.
Philip heads to Paris. Aunt Louisa is rather stricken by his departure but Philip hardly bats an eye. The way he handles the goodbye seems especially cruel and harsh.
While in Paris, Philip meets all sorts of characters:
- Mrs. Otter
- Clutton
- Fanny Price – what a piece of work she is
- Cronshaw – fave quote “Sobriety disturbs conversation.”
- Lawson
- Miss Chalice – a slutty art model who gets around
- Dunsford
- Mildred – now this one really IS a piece of work
- Miss Nesbit
- Griffiths – a good chap
Philip’s family suffers a terrible loss but his reaction to it is mild, because he is utterly distracted by the truth. He is a mediocre artist at best and will never be more. His two years in Paris was a total waste. Surprised?
Much time is spent with Mildred. An interesting creature characterized by the green pallor of her skin. Philip is quite taken with her but although she at times shows interest, she cares for him not and makes that pretty clear. But Philip seems to have his head in the clouds. His infatuation with her takes up much of his life. It’s pitiful.
Enter Miss Nesbit. Is she the beacon of hope he needs to find his way? What about Griffiths?
Things to ponder:
Why does Philip subject himself with masochistic obstinacy to Mildred’s cruelty?
Cronshaw implies that pleasure is the only motive for human action. Would you say that Philip follows this rule for his own life?
Philip has tried many vocations and headed down several career paths, what do you think he is searching for? Even with his relationships, what is he looking for that he has not found?
What do you personally think of Philip?
Mildred is just dreadful. Why is Philip obsessed with her? Possibly because she is something that he can never have and because of his low self esteem sets himself up for punishment each and every time. Is he that lonely? Probably.
Cronshaw and his belief that pleasure is the only motive for human action is not far off the path for many, but I don’t feel it applies to Philip at all. He sets out to find peace and happiness but he is also motivated by horrible behavior and impossible relationships. He appears to be drawn to them. Perhaps knowing that they have no permanence.
With this week’s reading, I am having a hard time understanding what Philip wants in life. He is so, so lonely and desperate for interaction that he’s willing to endure horrible treatment to get it. He wants what other, better dressed, smarter boys have but at the first inkling of getting it, he quickly puts himself in reverse and backs away. I still think that the right girl could do him a world of good. But who?
Philip can be a little $hit. Honestly. He frustrates me. On one hand he is charming and delightfully awkward and likable but he gives up way too easily and talks himself out of things. BUT, big but, I am still rooting for him. I want him to find happiness and I really hope he does as we head toward the end of the book. His views on the importance of reading put me on his team.
Interesting note:
A movie was made in 1934 and Bette Davis played Mildred. Oh boy!

Your turn! What do you think?
